This story is far from over. Even as Tiger Woods has announced that he is taking an "indefinite" leave from professional golf in order to give priority to his wife and family, his future as both professional athlete and public figure is very much in question. Some believe that Woods will return to his exalted position after a necessary period of contrition and public withdrawal. Others suggest that, given the mental demands of professional golf, Tiger Woods will have a very difficult time returning to top form. And, what about Tiger Woods the brand? On these questions time will have to tell. Nevertheless, the travail of Tiger Woods already provides lessons that are not to be missed.
Lesson One: Acts done in private can and will have public consequences.
Interestingly, the scandal surrounding Tiger Woods appeared to be of low voltage in its opening chapter. Indeed, some of the most interesting public debate of this first phase was over the question of whether the unfolding scandal was of any public consequence at all. A good number of observers, including Peggy Noonan, appearing on the "This Week" program on ABC News, argued that the scandal was a private matter, since Tiger Woods is a professional athlete and not a politician. Writing in Newsweek magazine, Julia Baird made a similar argument. "He is not a politician, priest, or morals crusader. He is an athlete," Baird declared.
She continued:
Why do we even pretend that sportspeople are models of propriety? Or rather why do we need them to be? They are physically gifted, driven, and disciplined. That's what you need to excel in sport. Not moral strength, courage, decency, or fidelity. These virtues are admirable, but are a bonus: they should not be an expectation. Yet we continue to project an irrational desire for the physically perfect to be spiritually strong.
That is a rather amazing argument. Moral strength, courage, decency, and fidelity are "admirable," but not necessary for athletes? Clearly, the American public was not buying that argument -- and for good reason.
Tiger Woods may not be a priest or a politician, but he has transformed himself into a public figure. Indeed, most of his income is derived from selling himself as a brand, an advertising symbol, and an image. The glare of publicity was not forced upon Tiger Woods -- he has actively and quite successfully cultivated this publicity for his own purposes. There is no inherent fault in this, but the American people are not buying the argument that his adventures in serial marital infidelity, combined with two late-night 911 calls, are matters of purely private concern between Tiger Woods and his wife, Elin Nordegren.
Charles McGrath made this point clear in an essay published in The New York Times:
[Tiger] Woods has become a public figure not just in the way that most great athletes are public figures, but also in a way probably unparalleled in the history of publicity itself. He has made far more money from selling himself, or his image, then he has made from playing tournaments. That image, partly genuine and partly sculptured, has been one of decency, modesty, filial devotion and paternal responsibility, and not of mysterious car crashes and evasive explanations.
Private actions lead to public consequences. This is not true at the same scale for everyone. As Charles McGrath pointed out in his essay, if the accident that sparked this scandal had happened to most people, "it wouldn't have merited more than a line or two in the local weekly." But whatever the context, private sins never stay as private as sinners expect, and the consequences are never limited to those privately involved. While the greatest injury is to Tiger Woods's wife and children, he has also done great damage to the sport he has represented for so long. The damage spreads far beyond the sports world.
Lesson Two: The public still believes that adultery is a big deal.
There is no question that America's moral landscape has been transformed in recent decades. This is especially true when it comes to the morality of sex and sexuality. Our contemporary society is marked by a breathtaking pattern of moral renegotiation that has led to the virtual evaporation of many moral stigmas, a rebellion against all rules, and the increasing legitimation of any number of sexual practices, lifestyles, and forms of expression. A spirit of moral revolution and moral relativism when it comes to sex has been in the air at least since the 1960s.
At the same time, marriage has been increasingly marginalized as an institution, with no-fault divorce and any number of other assaults serving to undermine marital stability and the place of marriage in society. Our contemporary mores have shifted to permissive extremes when it comes to matters such as premarital sex, pornography, and the ubiquitous use of sex in entertainment and advertising.
Still, it appears that Americans draw the line at adultery. The scandal surrounding Tiger Woods is essentially a scandal about adultery. In their own way, Americans have made clear their instinct and assumption that adultery is objectively wrong, deserving of moral censure, and not to be taken lightly.
The force of public outrage directed at Tiger Woods's admission of marital infidelity indicates that the American public conscience remains more deeply rooted in its biblical origins then many secular observers would expect or appreciate.
A fascinating angle on this issue is provided in an article by Roger Blitz published in The Financial Times. Blitz argues that Tiger Woods is likely to escape much damage to his reputation because "while Mr. Woods and his advisers have built his image around many values, such as his diversity, his connection with young people, ... and his well-spoken demeanor, Christian morality is not one of them."
In other words, Blitz asserts that those who are not publicly committed to Christian morality are not held to this standard by the public. Evidently, someone forgot to tell the American people. Virtually no public figure has come forth to argue that what Tiger Woods has done is of no significant moral consequence. No major figure has argued that marital infidelity is morally inconsequential. While Americans may be confused about any number of moral matters and questions about sexuality, marriage exists as a fundamental moral firewall, and the public outrage over this scandal is, in its own very important way, a testimonial to this fact.
Lesson Three: A fall from public favor can happen in an instant.
Just a matter of days ago, Tiger Woods was at the very top of his profession, one of the most admired public figures of the sports world, and a man known primarily for his exquisite discipline and absolute mental focus. All that has evaporated (for now, at least) in an almost instantaneous burst of scandal.
"What Tiger Woods has caused to happen to himself and his image over the past two weeks is the sports world's most remarkable fall from grace, ever." So wrote Christine Brennan in USA Today. She continued: "No athlete has ever held a perch so high in our culture -- right up there with President and Mrs. Obama, and Oprah -- and fallen so far so fast." All that changed in a matter of mere days. "Today, that man is in disarray, his family life a shambles, his golf future a question mark, with much of what we thought we knew about him now laughed at and doubted."
Of course, no one knows where the scandal will end. Tiger Woods must already deal with accusations of adultery, his own admission of guilt, and a growing swarm of salacious details, rumors, and speculations. He has added to his public challenge by attempting to script every admission for limited impact. Even as he has, to his credit, used words such as "transgressions" and "infidelity," he has not come forth with a compelling account of his behavior. Add to this his refusal to appear in public to make any comment. While this strategy is understandable, he will eventually be required to say something in a public forum.
Tiger Woods now finds himself in a disastrous crisis of his own making. There is no one else he can blame for his trouble and there is no public account that can undo the past. In a truly breathtaking reversal, Tiger Woods has gone from being one of the most universally respected figures in sport to one of the most widely discussed subjects of scandal. Clearly, it does not take long to fall from a pedestal.
In one of his advertisements for Accenture, the image of Tiger Woods appears along with the words: "It's what you do next that counts." Much now depends on what Tiger Woods does next. If the American people are truly scandalized by his adultery, they must now hope and pray that this marriage and family can be rebuilt and sustained. Something of far greater consequence than an illustrious career in sport is at stake here. Tiger Woods the human being is of infinitely greater value than Tiger Woods the brand.
For Christians, there is an even deeper concern. The current travail of Tiger Woods points far beyond his need for marital recovery, career consultation, or brand management. Tiger Woods needs a Savior. I am praying that this devastating experience, caused so classically by his own sin, will lead Tiger Woods to understand that he is not so self-sufficient as he thinks. Tiger Woods now faces a problem that he cannot solve. Though he can do much to repair his marriage, his family, and his public image, he cannot atone for his own sins. My prayer is that there is someone who can reach Tiger Woods with the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
In the end, all this must remind Christians of the universal need for the Gospel. We must remember our own sin and our utter dependence upon the grace and mercy of God made ours in Jesus Christ. Without question, this is the most important lesson drawn from the travail of Tiger Woods.
On his deathbed, Martin Luther offered these last words: "We are sinners, it is true." Tiger Woods is one of us, after all.
One moment the storm
then here comes a rainbow
so many questions
the one think I do know
I trust in your promise
I rest in your grace
your peace is beyond me
I'm standing faith
Chorus
my soul is satisfied
through the rain and the sunshine
through every wind of change
your love remains the same
my soul is satisfied
Verse 2
one moment your up
the next one you stumble
The dreams that you see
They all seam to crumble
but I believe in your promise
every one that you speak
and i rest in your presence
Jesus your my strength
Bridge
I can do all things through Christ
Who strengthens me
I can do all things
For Jesus your my strength
I can do all tings through Christ
Who strengthens me
I can do all things
For Jesus your my strength
Only |
Written by: Daniel James, Antonio Neal, Paul David, Adrian Cordova |
Only Verse 1 I'm so unworthy For all that you've given me I bow down before you Humbly I pray Your work in me done today Remove all else from me You've given me everything That's why I give this time Chorus Only to love you Only to bless you Only to worship you I'll Lift your name Give you praise Let all I do Bring glory to you Verse 2 Boldly I say Unashamed of you today I give you the glory The good that's in me You've given unconditionally I'm filled with your blessings Bridge Lord you are awesome Your might and your power Extends beyond all I can see I lift my hands today In honor of your name |
As praise and worship leaders it's important that we check our intentions, motives, etc for why we do what we do. I've been through countless churches in my lifetime and have had the pleasure of working with some of the most talented musicians in the world. But, I am writing this blog in hopes of communicating what being the best praise and worship leader in the world really means.
It's
my belief that most of us forget and get more wrapped-up in the quality
of production and drawing "star like" attention to ourselves vs. the
quality of the "praise" and the "worship." Unfortunately, this concept
has been lost to something we do 20 - 30 minutes before Pastor preaches
the message vs. something that really is an everyday action. It's our
jobs as Praise and Worship leaders to lead and teach those around us
what it really means. It's my belief that the role of the Praise and
Worship Leader can become extremely dangerous, not just to ourselves,
but to everyone who rely's on our leadership if not approached with the
right heart. Below is a brief characterization of Lucifer to read. I
encourage you to check yourself and your intentions while reading it.
The
name, Lucifer, means 'day star,' or 'son of the morning.' Many
recognize it as an alternate name of Satan, the fallen angel. But prior
to his downfall, Lucifer was a magnificent being with a unique
ministry. Unfortunately, pride overtook his heart, and sin cost him
everything.
Lucifer was one of three archangels mentioned in
Scripture. He was created by God as all angels were, but his role was
different from the other angelic hosts. Lucifer was referred to as the
'covering angel.' Just as the cherubim covered the mercy seat of the
Ark of the Covenant, Lucifer was established by God to be the angel of
worship, one whose ministry surrounded the heart of heaven. Lucifer was
created to dwell eternally in the throne room of heaven, in the very
presence of God (Ezekiel 28:14).
According to Ezekiel 28:13, Lucifer truly was an amazing being to behold: "You
were the seal of perfection, full of wisdom and perfect in beauty. You
were in Eden, the garden of God; every precious stone was your
covering: the sardius, topaz, and diamond, beryl, onyx, and jasper,
sapphire, turquoise, and emerald with gold. The workmanship of your
timbrels and pipes was prepared for you on the day you were created."
To
dwell in the awesome presence of a perfect and holy God as the covering
angel, Lucifer had to be perfect. There was nothing ordinary or plain
about his appearance. Adorned with gold and precious stones, he truly
fit the name, 'son of the morning.' He was a step above the other
angels, not only in appearance but also in intellect. Lucifer's wisdom
far exceeded that of other angelic beings. He understood the ways of
God; because of his wisdom, he was anointed to minister everlasting
praise and worship due to God's name.
But Lucifer's splendor
and beauty did not last forever. While ministering on the mountain of
God, he began to consider his own position of prominence. Lucifer
became prideful, believing that he deserved more than what he already
had. He ministered so closely to the throne of God that he thought it
would be a simple thing to take for himself a throne, and make himself
like the Most High.
Isaiah 14 reveals the fall of Lucifer from
the heights of heaven, which transformed him into the demonic creature
that he is today:
"How you are fallen from heaven, O
Lucifer, son of the morning...For you have said in your heart: 'I will
ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God; I
will also sit on the mount of the congregation on the farthest sides of
the north; I will ascend above the heights of the clouds, I will be
like the Most High.'"
Lucifer had wisdom, beauty, musical
ability, perfection, and yet he wanted more; he wanted to be worshiped
like God. But God does not share His glory, nor does He permit another
to receive worship. So before Lucifer had a chance to make his move, he
was removed from the presence of God. Cast out of heaven like a bolt of
lightning, Lucifer was stripped of his beauty, his position, and his
rights to heaven.
Lucifer's name, 'son of the morning,' was
given to a far more deserving individual, the Son of God. Jesus Christ
is called the 'Bright and Morning Star' (Revelation 22:16). Today,
Jesus is seated at the right hand of God, dwelling in the presence of
the Almighty. Just as Jesus said: "whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." (Matthew 23:12).
To be honest, since I made the decision to share my music without condition, I haven't slept as well as I would hope. I have been under a large amount of criticism as to how is my label going to be able to recover the money invested in the "Daniel James Projects" and that my decision was made purely out of selfish reasons and to "cop-out" of what we originally set-out to accomplish financially. I know in my heart that my true intentions are to no longer serve my own selfish ambitions, but rather give myself as a "living sacrifice" and serve the kingdom of heaven whole heartedly, without any conditions but just to please Him. Unfortunately, a thought such as this can be difficult to understand in the world of entertainment and business. Rightfully so, as I don't believe it's an unjustified question to ask "how am I going to get my money back?"
My biggest struggle mostly is that no matter if the intentions are pure or not, the perception is what becomes the reality. The mind of my flesh tells me to prepare a case that would convince everyone this is the right thing to do and not to worry that God will provide (Major act of faith for anyone). But the more you build a case to "sell" the idea, the more the intentions become questioned. My mind is recalled to stories such as Noah, etc that were underneath similar criticism while following God's commands that disconnected from the logic of those around them (No, I am not comparing myself to Noah….lol). In these stories, I find comfort. God doesn't need a salesman to justify his greatness anyway!
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With everything said, through all things, I know this is the right thing to do. So I will continue to do it and know that God WILL provide as He see's fit. Whatever the outcome is, no matter how it comes off, I know that as long as I TRULY renew my intentions every day, everything "Will come together for the good."
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>P.S. Don't forget you can download my entire new album for free at my website....www.danieljamesmusic.com. Yahoo!!!!
I encourage you to get out and grab the album, I've heard the songs and they are great! Let's support these guys as I feel it such a releif to know there are folks "Still" in this industry who truly have a heart for ministry!
-Daniel James
Sorry that I have been so quiet lately. I've kind of been hiding-out, spending time with the family and doing some self evaluation.
Over the past 6 months, I have been evaluating who I was as a man, husband and minister. What I found, I wasn't proud of. I found that I could only find selfishness in all of my intentions. My ministry up until recently has only been half hearted for serving Christ and the other half I was serving my ambitions. After this realization, I wanted to put the recording of the album and my career on hold until I could find myself in Christ again.
With all of this said, I have since re-written, re-recorded and have found new inspiration to write several new songs. The story of the birth, struggle and victories of my baby girl also brought major inspiration. I have walked away from recording in the major Nashville and L.A. studios and will record the final songs in the calm of my own studio during my worship time. I truly believe the outcome will be an album that I can humble myself behind and allow the intentions and the purpose of the Lord to take lead.
I apologize for going quiet for so long. Jacquenette and I really appreciate the thousands of emails of prayer and encouragement that we received from everyone. You have no idea how much that meant to us!
Humbling to ONLY His will!
-Daniel James